"I Dated that Douche...."

You know those moments in your life you sit down and think "what was I thinking"? Yes, we've all been there with our different reasons. Mine is kind of familiar. I have been trying to get back into the dating world after a couple of years off. Then I thought, maybe I can date online and give myself time to recover and at the same time try to come to terms with what had happened for me to take some time off. And is just so happens that I meet the bad guys, maybe except one, but this post is for one particular jerk who lied to me and has lied to many girls I suppose. Unfortunately this guy is a brother to one of my friends. I knew this guy when I was in high-school and his brother too, so to me, I thought I could just be friends with him considering his brother's friendship with me. Then I started liking him. He lured me into believing that his relationship was on a shaky ground and with my personal conviction that all I want is to be friends with him, I respected his situation and even helped to make things work for his relationship. Then things started turning the other way, we became more than just friends, the connection we shared, we both knew there was some chemistry between us. Then I started to hear that he wasn't actually fighting with his girlfriend like he claimed. At that moment I made up my mind to give him a chance to tell me the truth himself, but every time I ask about the issue, he could get very defensive and accusing me of not trusting him, does that sound familiar to you? Yes, "they all do, right"? Well, the lies continued for some more months and he believed me even though I was trying not to show him that I was angry and at that point, my love had died with the lies. I was ok, doing my own things, I in fact had moved on but since I wanted to be friends with this guy, I kept on talking to him, I told myself he will tell me the truth . I understood his situation, but with him, I don't know..... Then few months down the line, I heard that the girlfriend is pregnant, he still had the nerve to deny it when I asked him. Shaking my head!! We had regular fights because I knew that he was lying, but I wanted him to admit one way or another, but No, he never did. Until the baby was born at this point I had ruled him out of my life (of course). Here is where the jerk part is. He comes back to me after few months, and ask me if I can take him back and accept his baby - how stupid is that? This guy is a well known citizen of my homeland, I wonder how he does his job. How many lies he has told to his friends or family or people who listen to him.......Some of us we learn the hard way, this is just to help someone out there who might fall victim of such douche backs. Be smart! Am lucky he never got his dirty hands on me!